Father's Day Disownment(s)

I'm adopting my Mother's Family name and changing my middle name from my Father's name. Father's Day and its Disownment falls on a Sunday in my Legal Jurisdiction which will have to be a psychological and practical decision and the legal process will essentially be a change of name procedure and continued non-contact and estrangement. Legally-Speaking Disowning your father is not a legal process but a personal and emotional decision that involves setting boundaries, potentially limiting contact, and prioritizing your well-being. Legally, you cannot formally “disown” a parent, as you have no ownership or control over them. If you are a minor, emancipation is the legal route to gain independence from abusive or neglectful parents, granting you adult rights and responsibilities. As an adult, you can establish boundaries, limit contact, or seek protective orders if necessary. Adjusting your will or estate planning can also formally restrict inheritance or involvement in family matters. Informally, disownment often means cutting off communication and excluding your father from your life entirely - which I have been doing and will continue to do. Emotional and Psychological Impact Disowning a parent can trigger intense emotions, including grief, guilt, anger, and relief. Estrangement may feel sudden or confusing, and processing these feelings takes time. Coping strategies include seeking therapy, building supportive relationships, engaging in self-care, and creating a structured daily routine. Finding community support or connecting with trusted friends can help mitigate feelings of isolation. Spiritual and Ethical Perspectives From a biblical perspective, honoring parents is emphasized, but the scriptures also recognize situations where prioritizing personal well-being or spiritual commitments is necessary. Verses such as Matthew 10:37 highlight that allegiance to God may take precedence over familial ties, while passages in Exodus and Ephesians stress respect and obedience. The guidance suggests that separation may be justified in cases of harm or conflict, but reconciliation and forgiveness remain encouraged when possible If you choose to disown your father, it is important to: Clearly define your boundaries and communicate them if safe to do so. Seek professional support from therapists or counselors to navigate complex emotions. Build a supportive network outside the family to maintain emotional health. Consider legal protections if there is a risk of harassment or abuse. Disowning a parent is a deeply personal decision, and prioritizing your safety, mental health, and long-term well-being is essential PG